If a guy doesn’t call after the first date, it’s clear he’s not interested. No problem, even though it’s nice to get a email stating such. But what if you’ve gone out two or three times? You have fun dates, laugh and have a good conversation. Maybe some kissing or more. Then he’s gone. without a word.

Here are my theories on why men disappears:

He has other activities like sports and guy friends that he prefers over you.

He doesn’t like something fundamental about you like your personality and he’s afraid to tell you. So to avoid an uncomfortable conversation, he disappears.

He like your drama. He’s been there before and know its not what he’s looking for.

He does not think he can make you content. He knows he can’t give you what you expect, so disappears.

He does not think he can satisfy you sexually. So rather than face the possibility that he is a bad lover, he leaves.

He does not feel you can please him sexually. He thinks there must be a sexy woman out there who can get happy again.